“Do everything without complaining” (Philippians 2:14)
Is it wrong for Christians to complain? Of course, the apostle Paul’s injunction in Philippians 2:14 is clear and is a principle we should follow. But at the same time, does this mean we should never complain? This is a good example of how we should not take a single verse out of the context of the whole Bible.
The Old Testament gives numerous examples of those whose critical and complaining spirit was condemned by God. For example: “Now the people complained about their hardships in the hearing of the Lord, and when he heard them his anger was aroused. Then fire from the Lord burned among them and consumed some of the outskirts of the camp” (Numbers 11:1–2). Passages like this show very clearly that God is not pleased with those who complain about real or imagined problems.
But the Old Testament also shows the other side of this situation. It gives examples of righteous individuals who complained and were not condemned. Moses (Exodus 5:22–23; etc.), Jonah (Jonah 4:1–3), and Jeremiah (Jeremiah 12:1) – among others – all complained to God and are not said to have done wrong. In fact, in each case, God patiently dealt with the complaining individual and carefully explained why things were the way they were.
The difference between these examples of acceptable complaining and those situations where complaints were condemned is clear to see. In every case where the Bible shows complaining was condemned, it was of complaints shared with other people. In every case where the complaint was acceptable to God, it was made directly to him.
Perhaps the best example of this acceptable complaining is found in the Old Testament prophets. Consider first the book of Habakkuk – which contains complaints the prophet took directly to God. First, Habakkuk asks God the age-less question “Why do you allow bad things to happen to good people?” (Habakkuk 1:1–4; 13). He follows that up with another complaint that is related yet different: “Why do you allow good things to happen to bad people” (Habakkuk 1:13–17). Interestingly, the prophet does not bring these complaints because he feels God is unloving, but because he sees the unfathomable injustice in the world (Habakkuk 1:4), and that is the basis of both his complaints.
In a similar way, the prophet Jeremiah wrote “Righteous are you, O LORD, when I complain to you; yet I would plead my case before you. Why does the way of the wicked prosper? Why do all who are treacherous thrive?” (Jeremiah 12:1).
Notice that Habakkuk and Jeremiah both took their complaints directly to God and in a respectful and humble way. But they (and other prophets like them) did complain to God – and God answered them. For example, by the end of the book of Habakkuk the author shows that he was satisfied with what God revealed to him, and could now find happiness despite his complaints and the problems he perceived in the world around him:
“Though the fig tree does not bud and there are no grapes on the vines, though the olive crop fails and the fields produce no food, though there are no sheep in the pen and no cattle in the stalls, yet I will rejoice in the LORD, I will be joyful in God my Savior” (Habakkuk 3:17–18).
Studying the book of Habakkuk and some of the other Old Testament prophets when we are suffering or when we simply cannot fathom the injustices of the world can help us rise above these things, but the greatest lesson we can learn from these servants of God in this regard is that we should not complain to others about the things God allows – which weakens our witness and which can be a form of judging God himself. Yet we can honestly take our concerns to God and complain as much as we want – asking him to help us see his wisdom in allowing what he does, and for help to trust him with the outcome.
So go ahead and complain if you need to – just be sure to take your complaints to the right place.
