At the Heart of Pride

At the Heart of Pride

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“The LORD detests all the proud of heart …”  (Proverbs 16:5).
 
As the old saying goes: at the heart of pride, just as at the heart of sin, is “I.” There is nothing wrong with a healthy self-identity, of course, or with the use of personal pronouns, but the point the saying makes is that we can get into a world of trouble by making ourselves the center of the universe.

In that sense, it is as we begin to elevate the personal “I” above others, and ultimately place ourselves ahead of God in our view of things, that self-identity morphs into pride and pride into sin.  Consider, for example, the words of the prophet Isaiah spoken against the king of Babylon. Since medieval times, at least, these verses have often been thought to be also spoken metaphorically against the  power behind that king’s throne in the form of Satan himself, but the identity of the one addressed is not as important as the clear picture of pride the words give us, because the picture applies wherever pride is found:

How you have fallen from heaven,  morning star, son of the dawn! You have been cast down to the earth,  you who once laid low the nations! You said in your heart,  ’I will ascend to the heavens; I will raise my throne  above the stars of God; I will sit enthroned on the mount of assembly,  on the utmost heights of Mount Zaphon. I will ascend above the tops of the clouds; I will make myself like the Most High’” (Isaiah 14:12-14).

When we separate out the statements of the one whose attitude of pride is condemned in these verses, we get a striking picture of self-identity gone terribly wrong, of the personal pronoun out of control:

“I will ascend to the heavens”
“I will raise my throne above the stars of God”
“I will sit enthroned on the mount of the assembly”
“I will ascend above the tops of the clouds”
“I will make myself like the Most High.”
 
Wrongful pride always involves the expression of one or more of the four aspects of self-elevation –  focus on person, possessions, position, or power.  In this case, we see excessive focus on all four very clearly.  The constant use of the first person pronoun is the first thing we notice, and although, as we said above, there is nothing wrong with use of the “first person” in speech, when we so obviously put our person  first – before all others – there is clearly a problem. 
 
The second thing we notice is the element of possession: “my throne” and the element of position. In every statement we see a dissatisfaction with present position and  a desire to be elevated.  The desire for position  is not the same as that for power. Numerous studies have shown, for example,  that office workers will often give up responsibilities and privileges they have –  accept an actual loss of power – to  gain a new title that gives them more status.
 
But power is also an aspect of pride which cannot be ignored.  There is a clear lust for power in all of the statements of the prideful one, culminating in the desire to be not only elevated, but also to be like God himself, to have God-like power.
 
Throughout  Isaiah 14:12-14 we see the focus on person, possessions, position and power that reveals  the heart of sinful pride.  Notice, too, that other than desire for power like God, there is not a single mention of anyone else in any of these statements  – every statement begins with an expression of self-identity and ends in a goal of self-elevation.
  
By contrast, think  of the many statements of Christ in his earthly life that reveal the very opposite attitude.  “For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many” (Mark 10:45) and “… I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full” (John 10:10) are only two examples of this pride-less  state of mind.

When we look at other individuals in the Bible who were close to God, we find the same attitude.  Take King David, for example. David’s humility is often clear in his writings and the biblical books that speak of him.  His position as king did not affect his view of himself relative to God, and David often doesn’t refer to himself as “I” or “me” but as “Your servant” (Psalm 119:23, etc.)  – the very opposite attitude to that described by Isaiah.  

For the Christian, this attitude is a vital one. If, like Paul, we are to say: “I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me” (Galatians 2:20), then the person whose identity we seek is not our own self,  the position we seek is  not an elevated one, our possessions are viewed as being for the benefit of others as well as ourselves, and the power we seek is only to help others.

Whenever we realize that the ongoing focus of our thoughts or speech is on our own self, our possessions, our position relative to others, or some power we may seek, we should remember the words of Isaiah, and that it is precisely these things that lie at the heart of wrongful pride. 


Beyond Thankful

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The Bible contains many scriptures urging us to be thankful – verses many of us know well and may even have memorized; but this article is not about being thankful, it’s about what we are thankful for.

Many Christians understand the need for thankfulness, but have never thought through the clues the Bible gives us that we can be thankful and yet not thankful in the way God desires us to be. 

​Take, for example, that famous Pharisee in Jesus’ parable – the one whose prayer extolled his own virtue and religious deeds while rejoicing that he was not a sinner like others.  Jesus did not say that the man simply bragged about his spiritual life to God – he said he thanked God for it:  “The Pharisee stood by himself and prayed: ‘God, I thank you that I am not like other people–robbers, evildoers, adulterers–or even like this tax collector” (Luke 18:11). Clearly, the Pharisee’s thanksgiving was really only an extension or proclamation of his own self-satisfaction.

So it is possible to give thanks to God and yet to miss the point of true thankfulness because of what  it is that we appreciate. Consider some of the ways we can make this mistake in our own lives in terms of  the things for which we give thanks.

Do we give mainly give thanks for our physical things – such as our family, our friends, our health?

Do we mainly give thanks for our physical things – such as our job, our relationships, our environment?

Do we mainly give thanks for our physical things – our country, our home, our possessions?

Put the other way, how much of our thanksgiving is not for our physical things but for things such as the healing, guidance and help received by others? That is the opposite of the Pharisee’s prayer.

How much of our gratitude is expressed not for physical things, but for the spiritual gifts with which we and others have been blessed?

How much of our appreciation is expressed to God not for things, but for actions and qualities – for love and truth, for patience and strength, for all such good things whether experienced directly from God or in our interactions with others?

Finally, how much of our thankfulness is expressed along with praise of God? The Pharisee’s thanks were tied to praise of himself, and it is possible for our own thanks to sometimes focus on our successes and accomplishments.  These are valid things to give thanks for, but they are things that may only be a short way from personal pride.  The Book of Psalms constantly reminds us of the connection between thanksgiving and praise, and where the focus of that praise should be: “I will praise God’s name in song and glorify him with thanksgiving” (Psalm 69:30). “Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name” (Psalm 100:4).

Many scriptures show us that we should be thankful for all things (Ephesians 5:20) and in all circumstances (1 Thessalonians 5:18), but if we mainly give thanks for our things and our circumstances, we may have missed an important aspect of true thanksgiving.  While we may not be as far from real gratitude as the Pharisee in Christ’s parable, it is often profitable to think about what does move us to give thanks.  What we are grateful for can often be a window into our soul. It’s a window we should all look through occasionally. 


What Extreme Loyalty Looks Like

What Extreme Loyalty Looks Like

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n the Old Testament Book of Numbers there is an interesting story about the prophet Balaam. This individual seems to have been a man who knew of the true God, but who was nevertheless a “wicked” man (2 Peter 2:15, Jude 11, Revelation 2:14) who served pagan kings and who was eventually killed by ancient Israel (Joshua 13:22).   

Numbers describes how Balaam was hired by the Moabite king Balak to curse the people of Israel.  If we have read it, the incident in which God miraculously caused Balaam’s donkey to speak to him to warn him (Numbers 22:28) is one we all remember about this “prophet for hire.” But there is something more important that we can learn from the story of Balaam that is easy to miss.

It is clear that one of Balaam’s chief credentials or skills was constructing curses to be used on the enemies of those who hired him.  Balaam evidently knew enough about the true God and His purposes for Israel, however, that the prophet repeatedly refused to curse the Israelites.  Three times Balak provided expensive sacrifices and urged Balaam to curse Israel (with considerable financial incentives to do so), yet each time Balaam delivered not a curse, but a blessing (Numbers 23:11), insisting: “…  I can’t say whatever I please. I must speak only what God puts in my mouth” (Numbers 22:38).  And what God told Balaam to tell Balak was not what the king wanted to hear. God firmly instructed Balaam “You shall not curse the people, for they are blessed” (Numbers 22:13).

In the course of delivering not curses, but blessings on Israel, Balaam makes an astonishing statement, recorded in Numbers 23:21. The NIV translates this verse “No misfortune is seen in Jacob, no misery observed in Israel. The LORD their God is with them …,” but many translations take a more literal approach and translate this verse along the following lines:

“He hath not beheld iniquity in Jacob, neither hath he seen perverseness in Israel: the LORD his God is with him …” (King James Version).
“He considers no disaster for Jacob; He sees no trouble for Israel. The LORD their God is with them …” (Holman Christian Standard Bible).
“He has not responded to iniquity in Jacob or gazed at mischief in Israel. The LORD his God is with them…”  (International Standard Version).
“He has not looked on iniquity in Jacob, nor has he seen trouble in Israel. The LORD their God is with them…” (NET Bible).

But whichever option we choose among the possible translations of this verse, the message remains the same:  God was not looking at Israel’s failures and saw no disaster looming for them.  The remarkable thing about this is that God’s command to Balaam not to curse Israel, and the words of blessing that He did tell the prophet to convey, occurred after the people of Israel had turned to idol worship at Sinai, had complained continually (Numbers 11, etc.), and had openly rebelled against Moses and God (Numbers 12, 14). This is after we are repeatedly told “the anger of the Lord was kindled against the people…” (Numbers 11:33, etc.), and God had even said he was tempted to destroy them utterly (Numbers 14:11-12). Yet because of his love for Israel, God remained loyal to them (Deuteronomy 23:5).

This picture of God’s loyalty to Israel despite their disloyalty to him is a remarkable one of itself, and it is an important example for us to consider in our own lives.  Humanly, loyalty is a quality we tend to give only to those who are loyal to us, and it is a quality that is all too quickly withdrawn when others do not reciprocate.

The story of Balaam and God’s loyalty to Israel is one we can all apply in striving to be loyal to others despite their failings toward us.  God still disciplined Israel for its transgressions (Numbers 14:20-23), but his love included loyalty.  In our own lives we should use wisdom in dealing with those who show they cannot be trusted, but we should remember that loyalty is a clear trait of the character of God and a very real part of true forgiveness and love.


Pray for the Persecuted

Today is the first of three days set aside in the month of November as International Days of Prayer for the Persecuted Church (Nov. 1, 15, 22).

There is much information available regarding the plight of persecuted Christians in various areas around the world, and we should remind ourselves that we share a responsibility to know what is happening and to pray for those in desperate need.

On this website, for example, see our articles: “Words for a Time of Persecution,” “Do Not Betray the Refugees,”  ”The #WeAreN Campaign.”​

We also recommend Jonathan Petersen’s excellent article on this topic on the BibleGateway.org site here

A Hero Like You and Me

A Hero Like You and Me

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We are very happy to be publishing an excellent article by Angela Martin today. The article is about the biblical hero Sampson (Judges 13-16) and is an adaptation of one of the author’s recent website posts. 

Samson is the archetypal strong man for all time – a Schwarzenegger for the ages, a hero for the long-haul – but if we read the biblical account closely, there are some problems in the picture.

​In the article, “Samson: ​Seriously Flawed, Used Seriously,” we see the human side of Samson.  But there is good news.  Read this refreshing article to see how the lessons we can learn from this hero also apply directly to us.  You can read it here.